Going through divorce is one of the most painful events a person can experience. Feelings of loss, anger, pain, and fear are a normal part of the process and are intensified if the parties go through litigation. Although nothing can guard against the anguish of divorce, mediation is an excellent alternative to litigation in the majority of cases. As mediator, it is my job to create an environment where both parties are safe and respected and the focus remains on preparing for the future and not on blaming for the past. The mudslinging and blameshifting that often occurs in litigation has no place in mediation. I will remain neutral, in that, neither party will be favored over the other and I will guide you through the divorce process by going through each issue, and helping you weigh various options to make decisions. You do not win or lose in mediation because you decide what you will agree to and what you will not agree to. You are in control of the outcome. ... read more